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Fantasies are some of the most amazing things that the human brain can create. What’s more, with the right partner, you can explore them and discover what they’re about for yourself. That’s something everyone should do, should the safe and consensual opportunity present itself, according to sexologist Midori. Some fantasies don’t need to be acted out on, however, and could really be utilized to tell you more about who you are as a person.
- Domination – It can be a “vacation for someone who’s responsibilities include taking care of others’ needs or being fair or egalitarian.” It might not mean you want to turn over full control, but it might be nice to play by someone else’s rules for a change.
- Bondage – It “might enhance the feeling of power given and taken in dominance and submission play.” It can also give a “mental release from responsibility.”
- Group Sex – A recent study found that most participants were “open to having a threesome.” It’s a very common fantasy for both men and women, and its achievable with the right communication and ground rules.
- Gang Bangs – These aren’t the same as “group sex.” This is a fantasy where one person gets off on imagining being “worshipped” by a group of people. Another person might get off on being “used.”
- Exhibitionism – Some are titillated by though thought of being “seen” or maybe even getting “caught.” It might come through in experiments with their camera phones or random flirts of nakedness, just because.
- Voyeurism – On the other side of that is voyeurism, where someone gets on watching something that others might think are “taboo” to be checking out. For some, this might even lead to a little “Peeping Tom” roleplay action.
- Alien Sex – Yes…this is a thing. Some get into the idea of getting “abducted,” others can’t wait for the “medical experimentation.” It all boils down to people wanting to do things that are out of the norm and that they’re “not supposed to do.”
There are dozens more to explore. Click here and find out other things people are fantasizing about, what it might mean, and how to pull it off it properly inspired.