There’ve been countless examples of people who ended up falling in love with a mistress, but this one has an interesting twist. The woman, who doesn’t reveal her name, says she was “disgusted” when she found out her husband was cheating, and says it was a “horrible marriage” she was happy to be free of. One of the people who helped her get through it, though, was her husband’s mistress, Jane. She says Jane has been “so lovely,” has offered “huge support,” and showed her how to “be independent” and enjoy herself. That fondness grew so much, in fact, that the woman is now noticing that her feelings for Jane have grown, and now she “gets butterflies” when she’s around her. She’s been researching the issue and isn’t sure if she’s gay or not, but is now seeking advice on if it’s okay to ask out the mistress of her ex-husband. At least one person supports it, saying the idea of her stealing away her husband’s other woman is “kind of cool.”